Sep 11

Wendy Dio Remarries

Posted by Chris Harris on September 11, 2012 in Huh?, News

Wendy and Dio

Say what?

The widow Dio has remarried?

What the fuck? Ronnie’s barely cold yet and she’s got a new dude all up in her shit?

Yes, folks — I just read on Blabbermouth that the widow of Ronnie James Dio married her “longtime” boyfriend of the past two decades — Omar Gimenez — this weekend.

Is anyone else mildly offended by this?

I mean, I get moving on with your life, but how was she Ronnie’s widow if she’s been dating a dude since 1992?

Last year, Wendy responded to accusations she was cashing in on Ronnie’s legacy by saying, “I feel very, very, very sad. It’s very hurtful, but I know what I’m doing for the fans. I know what Ronnie and I had together, so, you know, it’s a shame that people say things like that, but people do always say things like that. I’m sorry for them. Most of the fans are fantastic; [they are] wonderful fans that loved Ronnie so much and who know that I wouldn’t do anything to hurt Ronnie’s reputation. We’ve always fundraised. Ronnie and I always fundraised. For animals, for children, for everything. It’s only right that I continue in Ronnie’s aim to do that.”

What the fuck, man? This is not right.

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Chris Harris is an internationally-published music journalist and writer whose work has appeared on the pages of Rolling Stone, IFC.com, Revolver, Alternative Press, and Radar. The former news editor for Noisecreep.com, AOL’s heavy metal blog, Harris also served as co-host for the site’s weekly podcast, “Creep Show." Harris spent four years as a reporter and on-air talent for MTV News.

  • jp

    Maybe they had an “understanding” or an open marriage, and just didn’t advertise it all over the place.

  • Val

    Or maybe she’s a fucking whore.

  • Bill

    Looks like the Dios (Padavonas) had an open marriage or practiced polyamory. Ronnie’s former partner Ritchie Blackmore admits he and Candice have a polyamorous relationship, a lifestyle that is common among pagans like Ritchie and Candace.

    Anyone that wants an honest discussion about the issue, I am willing to partake.

    • http://twitter.com/therealcie The Real Cie

      As a pagan myself, I can’t say that I have found polyamory to be particularly common among pagans. Some are, the majority that I have met aren’t. The idea that all pagans are into open relationships is a fallacy.

  • Val

    Who cares if they had an open relationship ? You just don’t strive to appear as a grieving, caring widow while you cash in and hump your gardener. Doesn’t have anything to do with paganism either (and since I’m honestly not willing to engage in such a debate with you, Bill, I’m going to ignore this offensive comment).
    Anyway, I don’t really give a shit. She’s a tramp. Big deal. It’s a shame but she won’t be the last. How much are you willing to bet that Sharon Osbourne will also unveil a longtime boyfriend when Ozzy dies ?

  • Bill

    Val, I don’t give a shit that you don’t give a shit. It’s Wendy’s life and she has moved on. Ronnie probably had other women in his life as well. I could care less what Ozzy and Sharon do. All they did was to give me good music over the decades and some entertainment value.

  • drippycheese

    she pushes dio merch on facebook endlessly…its overkill…..did I say cash cow…sorry

  • vivsavage666

    I’ve known Ronnie and Wendy personally for over 25 years. Their “marriage” was over a long time ago. They didn’t live together, etc. That being said, they remained the best of friends and she continued to be his manager until his untimely death. So whore and cheater and all that? No.
    And it is true that Ronnie did a lot of fundraising (Hear N Aid, for example) with Wendy for a number of different causes.
    Is she milking Ronnie’s legacy for everything it’s worth? Yeah. Selling Tshirts on facebook, etc., who cares, really? However, I am not a fan of Dio Disciples touring and them making money off of Ronnie’s music like that. Especially considering James LoMenzo never even played with Dio. That is just really lame.
    Would be a different story if it was Vivian, Jimmy, Vinny and Claude hitting the road with a new singer and playing the old shit.

  • Iilana

    From all reports they had broken up and gotten back together several times over the years but remained friends. At the time of his death, they may have been married, divorced or legally separated. Nobody really knows except the two people involved. However, her taking bows as his “widow” is disingenuous to say the least. That is why she is getting so much flack for capitalizing on his name. She is taking bows as his widow, not as his former or estranged wife and manager. I do remember seeing Wendy Dio on a talk show (possibly Sally Jesse Raphael) back in the early 90s accusing Ronnie of spousal abuse (verbal abuse and threatening behavior). Nobody seems to remember this show but I saw it. She said he woke her up screaming one night accusing her of adultery and she had to flee their house in just her nightgown because she was afraid of him. On MTV, there was a report that Ronnie filed to divorce her for adultery and that she called the police on him. Then it was reported that they were settling amicably. It was afterward, that I saw her on the talk show, which was about rock wives and the abuse they take. THIS IS TRUE. Yet, I defy anyone to find reference to this show or Wendy’s accusation anywhere online. It was their personal business, but SHE went on that talk show and attacked his good name out of spite. Maybe they got back together afterward, but that would be a lot to forgive on Ronnie’s part. Does anyone else remember this?

  • Joe Mama

    She can’t seem to get the year she was married to Ronnie straight. One interview she said she met Ronnie in 1975, a more recent interview said she was married to Ronnie in 1974.

  • http://twitter.com/therealcie The Real Cie

    I find this a little discouraging. However, I’m too old and jaded to be surprised.

  • badhaircut

    its not HIS music anymore – its her’s

  • Dio’s Angel

    I have known Ronnie for over thirty years, and they were legally separated since ’83. She treated him like dirt, and cheated on him a lot more than once and he knew it and finally had enough. It was NOT an open marriage. She has been living with Omar for over 20 years. Ronnie was enough of a gentleman not to bash her in public, but she had no problem bashing him in the media, but then, it was always all about HER. Is she “cashing in?” OH HELL YEAH!!!!! Ronnie was always a dollar sign to her and she is STILL squeezing every penny she can out of his name. As for the backstabbing Disciples….if any of them had any real talent, they would be writing and performing their own music. How can you have a Dio band without Dio????? These clowns rode his coat tails to fame and are STILL doing it. And these were Ronnie’s friends????? Wendy put this mess together just as another cash grab. THAT is how much she cared about and respected Ronnie. When Ronnie passed, he asked to have a gold Celltic cross that was very dear to him around his neck, and it was put there. But before he was buried, Wendy removed it, replacing it with a cheap imitation. Her excuse was that someone would steal it. The real reason? It was worth a lot of money and she wanted it for herself. This is the woman that many fans think is a wonderful person.

  • zepfan

    I love Ronnie James Dio very much after all those years I still smile widely while playing Heaven and Hell album with Black Sabbath. However, as far as I know and remember from 80′ Metal Hammers Wendy and Dio were ex even though they still kept together. So why shouldn,t she get married? I’m sure Dio wouldn’t mind that.

    • http://www.facebook.com/claire.k.carro Claire K. Carro

      She could have married years ago. Why didn’t she and Ronnie divorce? She still would have gotten half of everything and she would have had the chance to go out on her own without using Ronnie as a stepping stone. What is WRONG is the way she has conned the fans and some of Ronnie’s peers who don’t knoe the whole story into thinking that she is the grieving widow. She left Ronnie in 1983, it was HER choice. She cannot play the role anymore. It’s wrong!